That Doesn’t Mean What You Think It Means, or Transformed

“You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.” — Inigo Montoya, The Princess Bride

It’s weird how meanings change. Does anyone even say ‘cool’ anymore? Does it mean the same thing? I have no idea. I’m probably using it wrong nowadays. Nice used to mean ‘silly’. Awful used to mean that something was worthy of awe. Used in that sense, I’m not an awful dancer.

Events can change in meaning, too. Unfortunately, people are murdered every day. But the murder of one man in 1914 changed in meaning and led to WW1. A High School diploma used to carry a lot of weight in the job market, and nowadays you have folks with Masters degrees bagging groceries to make ends meet.

Matthew 26:6 (NLT) “Meanwhile, Jesus was in Bethany at the home of Simon, a man who had previously had leprosy.”

There are various causes that lead to a change of meaning. Social. Political. Economic changes. One of the most powerful ‘meaning changing’ forces the world has ever seen is Jesus of Nazareth.

Leprosy has a meaning. Loss. There were many different afflictions lumped under the leprosy umbrella, but the effect of all of them was loss. If not loss of life, it meant loss of social, economic, health, and spiritual affluence.

But Jesus changes the meaning. What was a death sentence- something that brought social exile, loss of family, loss of wealth, loss of the ability to even worship- Jesus changed all that. He takes the things that otherwise meant death, and uses them to demonstrate His overwhelming life.

After Jesus, where once there was exile, now there was a friend staying over before a feast. Where there was death, now there was the author of life itself. What was meant to crush, to kill, to destroy, was now proof of the life that overflowed from a run in with the King of Glory.

Jesus uses the things meant for death, and changes the meaning. After He gets ahold of them, those things are transformed into proof of change, of life, of something amazing. Those things that meant death are the proof of the God of Transformation.

I just wanted to encourage you that even things that meant death can be transformed by Jesus. The meaning can change from death to praise, to life, to overflowing.

We all deal with things that our enemy means to use to crush us, kill us, or cover our hearts in sorrow. But when given over to Jesus, He can bring life into those things and those situations. Jesus is a meaning changer. Don’t dispair. Jesus gets the last word when we’re obedient to surrender all to Him.

The Stuff, or Why Do I Have 15 Hats

‘How did we get all this stuff?’ I thought. I’m surrounded by shoes, baseball caps, and other general odds and ends that I never seem to use. That blue hat on the shelf? I’ve never even seen that hat before. Seriously. Is someone sneaking in here and putting their junk in my closet? I hardly ever even wear hats. Why do I have 15 hats? Whose shoes are these? I wear maybe 3 different pairs of shoes. Why do I have 7 pairs?

You don’t realize how much stuff you have until you start thinking about selling your house. All of a sudden you see things with different lenses, and in my case, I see a lot of clutter. I see stuff I never use. I see all those weekend chores I put off because it was cold outside or I was tired. I see a lot of work, and cleaning up, and cleaning out that needs to happen. I see lots and lots of stuff.

Matthew 22:21 (NKJV) “And He said to them, ‘Render therefore to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and to God the things that are God’s.'”

It’s easy, maybe natural, for stuff to accumulate, for stuff to get put off for another day. But sooner or later, you have to face it: The Stuff. God has stuff. In Matthew 22, Jesus paints a clear picture of whose stuff belongs to whom. The bible is full of God’s stuff and stuff that we owe Him: honor, worship, love, fear, obedience, power, majesty, glory. I could go on and on for days. God has a lot of stuff, and man, His stuff is better than mine.

Healing: God’s stuff. Provision: God’s stuff. Love: both God’s stuff and stuff I owe Him. Obedience: definitely stuff I owe Him. We’re in the spring cleaning season, or maybe you’re in the spring ‘let’s sell our house’ season. While all that is going down, don’t forget that there is a spiritual aspect to almost everything. There are spiritual seasons as well and sometimes we need a good spiritual spring cleaning.

So, in this time of spring cleaning, of new life, of nature waking from its winter sleep, of taking care of things you’ve been putting off: You may bump into some of God’s stuff; you may bump into some unexpected blessings. Man it’s awesome when He just plops a good healthy portion of His presence or His stuff in your lap and you just get to enjoy Him, to bask in His glow and glory.

You just may bump into some stuff you need to give Him. We put stuff off; it’s what we do. Give God His stuff: love, worship, honor, praise, thankfullness. Or maybe it’s time to clean out some stuff you’ve been holding on to. Those 8 baseball hats? You don’t need them. Resentment, pain, and unforgiveness? Man, you definitely don’t need that. Give that to God and let Him clean that out.

On this beautiful South Carolina spring day, I want to encourage you. You are God’s stuff. He loves you. Take some time today to rededicate yourself to Him and let Him give you a good spring spruce up. Have a good day, guys.

Addendum: Pacing

More for your money: If I’m honest about it, this sprinting off ahead of Him, this mechanism in my brain that causes me to run myself ragged, it’s a symptom of an issue that needs deal with: doubt. We doubt. We doubt that He’ll come through for us, so we try to ‘get it done’. ‘He works miracles and He does for others but I have to do this or it won’t get done.’ It’s fear. We’re afraid that we’ll sabotage ‘it’ so we run ourselves ragged as if God’s plans for us could be defeated when we are walking with Him.

Keep in step with the Spirit. He won’t fail you. How could He? Did Israel ever fail or lose a battle when they were walking with God in obedience? Never. How could the God of All Glory, the Maker of Heaven possible fail? It’s when we sprint off ahead of Him that we fail or get ourselves in trouble. ‘But what if I fail? What if I do something to mess it up?’

1 John 5:14-15 (NLT) “And we are confident that He hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases Him. And since we know He hears us when we make our requests, we also know that He will give us what we ask for.”

I believe without a doubt, according to the scripture from Old Testament to New Testament, that He wants you to walk with Him, at the pace He walks, where He walks, when He walks. I believe it pleases Him when we walk with Him, follow Him, and are obedient to His leadership. Make that your goal and prayer, and know that He has given His word to get it done. He will make it happen. The results are God’s.

Will you mess up? Sure. Will God make it work anyway. Absolutely. Don’t give up. Don’t get discouraged.

Pacing, or 35 in a 55

“You’re walking too fast. Dad, slow down,” she said. She was huffing and puffing and grabbing her side the way kids do in gym class when they’re running laps. ‘Girl, your legs are eight feet long. Keep up,’ I thought. We weren’t running. We weren’t jogging. We need to work on her cardio. Kidding. Kind of.

We were in the grocery store, darting through the traffic of buggies and shoppers like a professional NASCAR driver maneuvers through lazy Sunday traffic. I move with a purpose. I don’t like to be slowed down, even in grabbing a bag of chips and a carton of eggs. When I get slowed down, I get fussy. I get annoyed.

Honest confession time: When I have a goal, I am a mechanism of perpetual motion towards that goal. Be it a carton of eggs, a new hobby, a task at work, a finish line of any sort- when that switch gets flipped to ‘go mode,’ I will not stop until I either collapse, die, or exceed that goal. It’s a dangerous trait to have. And because of that, I was reminded again this morning about pacing.

I have a long commute to work. 40 minutes one way on a two lane country road. 40 minutes on a good day. Timing is everything. Luck helps. It’s a mixed bag. On one hand, I’ve got at least 40 uninterrupted minutes with nothing to do but pray and sing and praise, and honestly, sometimes complain to God. On the other hand, man, sometimes 40 minutes can feel like 40 days in the wilderness. Today was one of those days. 30 mph in a 55 mph zone.

‘A plague on all your houses!!’ I thought to myself. I was two cars behind some dude completely unconcerned with the speed limit. 35 in a 55. I couldn’t pass him. He wouldn’t turn off onto another road. My initial reaction was one of wanting to smite him with an unholy indignation. True story. Me and the 20 cars behind me were locked into his pace, and his pace was as stagnant as a back woods swamp.

As I was praying, and surrendering my anger for this dude to God (hey, I’m shooting straight with you and at least I recognized that I needed to surrender that to God), I said, “35 mph with a 55 mph speed limit. Good grief!” I’ve got places to go, people. I’ve got things to do. 35 mph was not on the itinerary today.

Then something checked in my spirit, and I said, “Lord, help me move at your speed limit.” As soon as I said it, I knew God had set me up. He does that, sometimes. If He doesn’t do that to you, I congratulate you. You are Super Saint- hero among us all. For the mere mortals who read this and get set up by God and some old joker in a pickup truck, you’re not alone. He sets me up, and I fall for it every time.

Galatians 5:25 (NIV) “Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.”

Instead of keeping in step with him, created in His image and walking in harmony with Him and at His pace, I’ll go mechanism-robototron on it. I’ll take off running, and I’ll run myself ragged. In my 20’s, I ran- not metaphorically but literally. One of the first things you have to learn when running for any kind of distance, is pacing. Set a pace; keep your pace. When you feel fast- slow down and stick to your pace. When you’re tired and you feel slow- pick it up and stick to your pace.

In distance runs, the best thing you can do to ensure you get to the finish is to find your pace, and keep it. Ours is a spiritual race, and this race is not a sprint but a distance run. Keep His pace. Keep in step with the Spirit.

I Need Burn Cream For This Vicious Burn, or Pouting

‘Ohhhh, man. Viscious burn, Lord. Ouch,’ I said to myself.
I was sitting at my dining room table, reading my bible. I had a bowl of grits with cheddar cheese melted inside them, and my ever trusty cup of coffee nearby. The cheesy steam from the grits had by this point stopped rising as my bowl descended into a room temperature gelatinous goo of corn and cheddar cheese. My coffee had just reached that perfect temperature: hot, but not hot enough to burn my tongue. This morning was like most mornings, and most mornings you’ll find me reading my bible before I head off to work. I have a pretty reliable morning routine:

  • Wake in utter disbelief that it can possibly be time to get up
  • Complain in my mind, as I’m not yet capable of speech, thinking something along the lines of, ‘Oh, God. Please no! It can’t be time already.’ (I’m not a morning person)
  • Ask for forgiveness for complaining, and thank Him for giving me another day, and then go start my morning shower and such
  • Make breakfast along with way too much coffee
  • Read my bible while drinking way too much coffee
  • Realize I’m running late and then scarf down my food which by this point has grown room temperature cold
  • Go to work

Matthew 15:25 (NLT) “But she came and worshiped him, pleading again, ‘Lord, help me!'”

Have you ever pouted before the Lord with all your might? Man, I have. Recently. It’s not just a new baby Christian thing.
‘Oh, Your answer is no? Ok, I’ll go over here and pout for a while, Lord. Just let me know when you change Your mind.’

And then this lady. This lady in the extended passage from Matthew 15 was outright ignored by Jesus when she cried out to Him. Did she pout like I would have…eh, let’s be honest, like I have? Nope. She worshiped. She worships; then she begs. Again. When He tells her no again, does she huff away and talk about how unfair He is? Nope. She responds, not in anger or pain or pouting, but in faith.

Takeaway for the day: When you’re presented with the option to pout, or to respond in faith, don’t pout.

Food Sharer, or Babies Are the Human Equivalent of Unicorns

“I’m not a very good food sharer,” she said.
“Uh, yeah,” I replied. “I know.”
Folks, this was not, I repeat Not, news to me. At all. That ‘revelation’ was the equivalent of my wife telling me that the sky is blue and that water is wet. Nachos? No way sucker, not ‘cho cheese. Spaghetti? Better spaghet’ out of here ’cause she will cut you. Pizza? Slice. Macaroni? You’ll get an elbow to the throat, joker. And then one day, sudden change.

You may be wondering: What could possibly happen to make a woman, who previously would have elbowed you in the throat over macaroni and cheese, to suddenly change? What could cause her to become the Lenin of food sharing socialism- all for one and one for all? A baby. When our daughter was born, all of a sudden there were baby fingers in momma’s plate, food was being passed back and forth, and momma was a happy camper.

Donnie’s Law of Baby Power: Babies are magical creatures. Their power can not and should not ever be underestimated. They can make grouchy men smile, smiling women cry, and non-food sharers share their food. They are the human equivalent of unicorns.

Matthew 14:19 (NLT) “…Then, breaking the loaves into pieces, He gave the bread to the disciples, who distributed it to the people.”

In our scripture text, Jesus gave to his disciples so that they could give to others. Jesus is a food sharer. He certainly could have fed the people and just had the disciples sit back and watch, but that’s not what He’s after. He’s after us participating with Him. He wants us to take what we’ve been given, in faith, and share that with others.

As this week comes to an end, I want to encourage you to reflect on what you’ve been given this week. Look for opportunities to share the good things that have come your way. The best you could ever share with someone is Jesus. But let’s also be honest folks, don’t be stingy with those nachos. Spread the love around.

Have a great weekend.

Spotlight Tag, or Bought

When I was a kid, my friend Jeff had a sleepover party, and I got invited to it. I was so pumped. Staying up late, playing spotlight tag. I loved playing spotlight tag. I still love playing spotlight tag.

I arrived at Jeff’s house and there was pizza, and movies, and a lot of guys from our class were there. When it got dark enough, Jeff’s dad rounded us all up to go outside and play spotlight tag in the woods behind their house. Looking back on it, man, Jeff’s parents were saints. Can you imagine a dozen little boys all pumped up on Mountain Dew running around your house?

Matthew 13:44 (NKJV) “Again, the kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and hid; and for joy over it he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.”

Most of the time playing spotlight tag, you did everything you could to not get caught. But if you were the last person on the team…well, sitting out in the woods alone, in the dark, gets boring after a while. It can get creepy. Then you’re praying that someone finds you. You’ll start whistling or humming or just walk right out into the open just to get it over with so everyone could start a new round. Sometimes you want to get found; sometimes you don’t.

I think I’ve always read verse 44 backwards. All this time, I saw myself as the man finding the treasure and selling all to gain it. That may very well be an accurate application, and to some degree, I think that’s right on. To possess the kingdom, you have to sell all from your old life (figuratively) so that you can rightfully possess this new life.

But today it struck me that maybe that’s not the full story. You see, I wasn’t looking for God. Quite the opposite. I wasn’t trying to get found; I was trying to stay hidden. I was getting adjusted to the dark, and I was quite content to sit there a while. I was the one lost, and I was the one who got found. He gave up all to buy me.

Thinking of the verse that way, it means He thinks that I’m a treasure. Not just a treasure but valuable enough to sell all and buy me. He had to shed glory and majesty to buy me out. He gave up the riches of heaven to come buy me out of my bondage. It took that much.

Thinking of the verse in these terms also means that He was glad to do it. For joy He sold all. It pleased Him to find me. It pleased Him to find you. He thinks you’re a treasure. He thinks you’re worth it. I hope that truth shines a little light on your week.

It Takes Time, or Delicious Carb Machine 5000

The Delicious Carb Machine 5000- The most amazing invention known to modern man. Ok, that’s not its real name, but it should be. This is why they don’t let me name things or work in marketing, because I would name things ‘The Delicious Carb Machine 5000’.

I really like our bread maker. It makes bread. It makes pizza crust. A recipe book came with it that says you can make other things, but in real life, do you need anything other than bread or pizza crust? I guess I don’t, because I’ve only ever used it to make bread or pizza crust. True story.

Matthew 13:33 (NLT) “Jesus also used this illustration: ‘The Kingdom of Heaven is like the yeast a woman used in making bread. Even though she put only a little yeast in three measures of flour, it permeated every part of the dough.'”

A bread machine is amazing. You put in the ingredients, poke a little hole in the flour, spoon in a couple teaspoons of yeast, and your work is done. Measure, pour, press a button. The machine spins stuff around a bit, but it’s actually the yeast that does the hard work.

Just a little yeast eventually works through all the dough, making all of it rise. It takes patience and time. It takes a lot of time. A bread machine is great for a sandwich tomorrow. If you want a sandwich now, you need to go to the grocery store.

After the dough rises, you have to wait again for it to bake. Waiting for the dough to rise and bake feels like it takes forever. I’m not good at waiting. But if you rush it, if you shortcut the process, it won’t rise to it’s full potential, or it won’t bake through and it’ll be a doughy mess. It takes time.

Maybe you haven’t risen to the point you thought you would by now. Give it time. Be patient. In yesterday’s scripture, we saw that God sows seeds, and seeds take time to grow and produce. Yeast takes time to work, but it works thoroughly. God is doing a thorough work in you. That work just takes time. Don’t shortcut it.

Maybe you’ve risen and now the heat is on. Stick it out. You weren’t meant to be dough. God’s making you into bread, and bread doesn’t bake without some heat. Don’t shortcut it. It takes time.

The Worst Farmers Ever, or Sowing Seeds

“We’re pretty much the worst farmers ever,” she proclaimed on the video she was taking.
“What the world? It’s winter time. Nothing grows in the winter time,” my wife and I replied.
“Still, we’re pretty bad at it,” my daughter said.
Folks: It. Was. Winter. My daughter has a very high bar for what successful gardening looks like. For her, if it’s not growing and producing, even in winter, it’s an epic failure.

We started a garden the first spring after we moved in our home. We went from having zero land in the city to having acres and acres of land in the country. Our garden was our way of dipping our toe back into the American dream: a yard with a garden, kids playing, animals frolicking. Our country hearts had been bustling in the city for too long. Our new home would be our own little dirty-hippie-commune of plants and animals and Jesus and eternal sunshine. Adam and Eve in the garden once again.

I could see it all so clearly. It would be glorious. It would be like that scene in Gladiator where he’s walking through the wheat field, but without being gladiated and murdered to death. Our little heaven on earth.

We didn’t have a tiller, but that’s ok. Real dirty hippies don’t use tillers. That’s right folks. We’re those kind of dirty hippies. So we broke up the ground with hand tools. There were some blisters, but no biggie. Part of doing business, and brother, business was a’ booming. We bought seeds and plants. We sprouted, and planted, and tended, and watered, and fertilized. We worked, and we were reaping.

However, the squash bugs didn’t get the memo that this was our own personal piece of dirty-hippie-living-off-the-land heaven. It took some bit of Googling before my wife figured out what all those bugs were. It took some more Googling to find a solution to our pest problem. We lost a lot of squash plants, but not all of them. We kept seeing a harvest come in every week.

And then winter rolled around. Everything in the garden went dormant or died off. Year one of gardening, according to my wife and me, was a success. We planted; we harvested. This is how gardening works. But our daughter saw winter as conclusive proof of our epic failure at gardening.

Not to be discouraged by bugs or sayers of nay, come spring, we were back at it again. This time we were prepared for squash bugs. I was ready to go Hippie-Roman-Legion on those jokers. The bugs we were prepared for. But we weren’t prepared for health issues that took us away from our garden. At some point it became a choice of taking care of my wife, or tending our garden. So the garden took a back seat. Added to that, the deer also didn’t get the memo. We weren’t prepared for the deer using our garden as their morning breakfast buffet. We weren’t prepared.

Matthew 13:8,23 (NLT) “Still other seeds fell on fertile soil, and they produced a crop that was thirty, sixty, and even a hundred times as much as had been planted!…The seed that fell on good soil represents those who truly hear and understand God’s word and produce a harvest of thirty, sixty, or even a hundred times as much as had been planted!”

There was a direct cause/effect relationship in the amount of time we invested into our garden in terms of how much vegetables came out of it. The less we weeded, the less we got. The less we watered, the more plants withered. What wasn’t protected from the deer was consumed. But even last year’s garden, I don’t believe, was an epic failure. We still pulled some cucumbers out. Squash. Purple potatoes. A couple sweet potatoes. A few raspberries. Sunflowers bloomed and traced the sun’s track across the sky. Compared to the number of seeds planted, we still raked in good profit. We had planted a good bit, so even through the toll of bugs, deer and neglect, we saw some veggies out of it. It was short lived, sure. But had health and deer not conspired against us, we’d probably still be eating squash.

There’s a couple takeaways from the extended passage in Matthew and from gardening in general:

  • We still saw a harvest even though some harvest was stolen or choked out
    • Some seed always falls on good soil and produces for you.
    • When faced with the decision to plant or not to plant, plant.
    • More seeds planted gives you better odds of weathering disaster.
      • If we would have planted 3 plants, we would have been sunk. By planting more, we put the odds more in our favor.
  • God is a planter
    • Very rarely do we see God operating in the realm of instant gratification. That’s what makes miracles miraculous. They don’t happen that often, but they do happen. Some would say the fact that we pulled anything good out of our garden last year is miraculous. They wouldn’t be wrong, but by planting a lot of seeds, we were still able to see a harvest.
    • Though miracles by their nature are rare, the nature of seeds is not rare at all. God sows seeds all the time: in your yard, in the forest, in the fields- seeds abound. Plant seeds.
  • It takes time and time is cyclical
    • Related to above, from seed to harvest takes time. If you try to rush it, you’ll just end up frustrated.
    • There are seasons. Contrary to what my daughter thinks, most things won’t grow in winter time. That doesn’t mean that your ground is stricken and that all hope is lost.

I was reminded again this morning that last week is done. Last year is way done. Today is another start. Spring is on its way. This week you have an incredible opportunity to plant more seeds. Today, you have an incredible opportunity for God to plant more seeds in you. Even one seed or one plant can produce a big harvest, but the more you plant the better your odds. Get out there and plant good things. Get in the word and let Him plant good things in you. Plant seeds this week, good seeds, and trust Him to bring in the harvest. Let Him plant lots of good seeds in you through frequently reading the bible, through prayer, and through spending time with Him.

Monopoly, or What’s the Score

“How did you even beat me?” I asked.
“I got all your money and all your properties.”
That was that.

My daughter will take all your money. She’ll make you mortgage all your properties. She’ll do it without trying. She’ll be sweet. She won’t pressure you or play dirty. She’ll come from behind, and make it look easy to beat you. It’s unbelievable. She has the Monopoly gift.

The weird thing with Monopoly is that having a lot of money or property early in the game doesn’t really mean that you’ll end up winning. Monopoly is a weird game like that. You can have more money and more property than anyone, and then ‘poof’; you’re done. All it takes are a few good rolls, or a few bad ones, and the score changes completely.

Matthew 12:20 (NASB) “He who is not with Me is against Me; and he who does not gather with Me scatters.”

There’s been a ton of times playing Monopoly where I thought I had it in the bag. “Hang it up folks, cause this is what winning looks like.” And then my sweet little baby girl would ruthlessly pick me apart without even trying. Savage. Scattering savage.

There’s also been times in real life, and unfortunately there have been more than a couple, where I thought I was winning. I thought I was winning personally and socially. I thought I was winning at work. I ended up picked apart and scattered.

So, as we close out the week, we have to ask: What is the score? Were you working with Jesus, or would a good wind scatter you? If you worked with Him: boom. You win. Congratulations. Pass go. Collect $200. If you weren’t working with Him, don’t despair. This is your chance to take another roll, and hit that sweet sweet Free Parking.

Just like in Monopoly, the score can change at the drop of a hat. To change direction today and to work with Him is to win. Have a great weekend.